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If you are a student leader on campus, such as an RD, RA, and/or peer group leader, this information should be helpful for you to address issues of sexual assault, relationship violence, and stalking in our community, or in your dorm. Also, if you would like to plan a specific event or workshop for your dorm, just let RISE know!

The RISE Project

RISE Project Director: Kelly Kelbel, x3799, cell 828-777-0017

RISE Crew: x3798 www.warren-wilson.edu/~rise

What does the RISE Project do?

We provide education and training on sexual assault, consent, healthy relationships, and dating violence and stalking. We organize a variety of service opportunities including managing the garden at Helpmate (the local domestic violence agency), providing trainings with Our VOICE (the local rape crisis center) to volunteers, and coordinating student volunteers for Room in the Inn (the traveling shelter for women who are homeless without children). We also provide support and advocacy to people who experience sexual assault, relationship violence and stalking, and their friends and partners. Students come in for various reasons, such as to ask questions, to talk through something they experienced, to get information regarding STI testing, to change rooms, work crews or their class schedule, amongst other things.

What are signs that someone has experienced sexual assault, sexual abuse, relationship violence, or stalking?

Many people experience PTSD, or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Some common symptoms include:

nightmares
recurring thoughts about what happened
trouble sleeping
change in appetite
anxiety or fear (especially in situations reminiscent of the trauma)
being overly alert or on edge
feeling depressed or sad
having low energy
feeling emotionally withdrawn or numb
crying spontaneously
feeling hopeless
being protective of others
isolating oneself
feeling angry, resentful or irritable
difficulty focusing
memory problems (especially regarding specifics of the trauma).

Some students might experience something while they are students here and others might have experienced something in high school or as a young child. Some students might not have experienced something directly, but might have witnessed violence in their home, and are likely to struggle with PTSD as well.

How might you come across students who have had these experiences?

Students might move out of or into your residence hall. In most of these situations you won’t know because students will give other reasons.
You might see something suspicious. Better to act and be wrong than do nothing.
A student might come to you about a friend and/or roommate. Sometimes students will come forward as a group.
You might notice symptoms of PTSD.
You might notice changes in students, particularly behavior or mood.

Why don’t people report sexual assault/abuse, relationship violence or stalking?

Think it is not that serious, particularly that more serious things have happened to others
Afraid people will not believe them
Do not want others to know
Blame themselves and/or are ashamed that they “allowed” the abuse
Want to forget about it and move on
They believe an abusive partner can and will change
They are financially dependant on partner
They do not feel like they have the resources to leave a relationship
They love their partner
They believe they don’t deserve anything better
They witnessed abusive relationships, and think it is the way relationships are

What can you do if someone you know has experienced sexual assault, sexual abuse, relationship violence or stalking?

If they share their story with you, tell them that you believe them and support them in coming forward.
Present them with referral information. Let them know that you can go with them to meet with someone, or be with them when they make a phone call. Appropriate referral information includes RISE, Our VOICE, Health Center and/or Health Department, Hospital (depending on how soon after the assault it happens), and Counseling Center. The RISE Project also has additional agencies to refer to, and can help with all medical and legal advocacy, and with on campus advocacy.
Someone who has just been sexually assaulted might want to go to the hospital for medical treatment and/or evidence collection.
Respect that person’s right to confidentiality.
Let students know that they can report something at anytime. It is never too late.
Let students know that they have a variety of options, including various reporting options.
The only options that guarantee confidentiality are the RISE Project and the Counseling Center.
Any of you can ask us questions on behalf of other students, too.
Meet people where they are at. Let them make their own choices. Support them.

Consider:

*If you hear verbal fighting or physical altercations between partners, friends, roommates, please do not just ignore it. Use your best judgment. You might need to call 911 or public safety, or it might be appropriate for you to intervene, either alone or with others. Consider safety first.

*Getting to know students in advance will increase the likelihood that they will disclose to you.

*If you notice changes in a resident or someone in your peer group, talk with them about it. If you aren’t sure how to do so, come by and talk with me or one of the counselors about what you can do.